[1] : The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48

obliging \obli"ging\ -oblimac"ji^ng, a.
   putting under obligation; disposed to oblige or do favors;
   hence, helpful; civil; kind.
   1913 webster

         mons. strozzi has many curiosities, and is very
         obliging to a stranger who desires the sight of them.
                                                  --addison.
   1913 webster

   syn: civil; complaisant; courteous; kind, -- obliging,
        kind, complaisant.

   usage: one is kind who desires to see others happy; one is
          complaisant who endeavors to make them so in social
          intercourse by attentions calculated to please; one
          who is obliging performs some actual service, or has
          the disposition to do so.
          1913 webster -- obli"gingly. adv. --
          obli"gingness, n.
          1913 webster
see also:
obliging kind complaisant obli"gingly obli"gingness 

[2] : WordNet (r) 2.0

obligingness
     n : a disposition or tendency to yield to the will of others
         syn: complaisance, compliance, compliancy, deference
see also:
complaisance compliance compliancy deference 

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